thenameisnajma: Hi!:)I wanted to see other people's opinions on this & kinda wanted some advice. Is it not cool that my boyfriend has never gotten me flowers before? Or any kind of little gift? We've been talking for a year and we've been in a serious relationship for 5months now. He has a good job, works at a bank. He does pay for dinner most times, and he pays for little things I buy to eat here and there though. Am I just overthinking? I feel like any other guy would surprise his gf once in a while though...

Hey thats cool! It really depends on how he shows love. Personally, I think flowers are extremely overrated. If a guy is going to buy me flowers just because he thinks he should then I would rather not have them. I think your boy is expressing his love in other ways, like with his time or dinner. if you are only worried about the fact he isnt buying you flowers, then you have a pretty good relationship. just remember, everyone has different love languages and im sure you boy just isnt the gift giver - he shows his affection in other ways. if you are that worried talk to him about it but tbh i think it will come out very self centered and shallow. have you ever bought him small gifts? :) hope this helps